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Friday, April 9, 2010

fahami dalamannye,,its all about relationship

what about love??
ada yang sweet je, ada yg garang je.
every couple ada different ways of handling their relationship.
ada yang tersalah cakap or tersalah buat
but sometimes i jadi confuse bila things jadi complicated.

situation 1
girl : i want a sweet romantic guy. nape you tak sweet??
(girl, jangan direct sangat with guys. they all tak suke you terus serang. they find it rude. try cara hint. and plus maybe the guy tak sweet. but he loves you with all he got. maybe you girls dont know that. stop comparing but find the best part in him)
boy : why you tak pernah nampak all the things yang i dah buat for you??
(boy, the girl bukan tak appreciate. dia nak atention and all your love. bcoz she loves you more than anything. unless the girl curang, memang dia x heran pasal u. so, your choice. nak a girl yang truly love you or yang curang. jangan bila dah hilang, baru nak gelabah. hehe.)

situation 2
boy : i rasa you selalu tak happy ngan i. you just cant stop complaining.
(the girl complain sebab dia nak work things out. maybe dia dah banyak terasa ngan you. thats why nampak macam dia sound. but actually not. try and faham, maybe she's deeply hurted by you. maybe dia tak btau you sebab tak nak burden you. her happiness is important too. if you love that someone, never let them down.)
girl : i just nak you tau whats in my heart.
(the best way to tell him what you really feel is, try and talk as nice as possible. in jokes or indirectly. sometimes, guys selalu get the wrong impression. they all can be abit immature. be positive girls. kalau the guy marah, you mesti sabar for your good. for the future too.)

situation 3
girl : why you tak macam my friends punya boyfriend??
(ni paling dahsyat for a girl to say. this will definitely hurt him. its like you rasa other boys are better. no matter how deeply he hurt you, you must understand that he is still your bf. korang had your happy times before. cherish that. its real precious. no use of comparing coz that will only make things get worse.)
boy : leave me then if you're not happy.
(she bukan tak happy ngan you. maybe dia jealous tengok her friends. girls are very manja human being. they love to be pampered and loved. actually she's trying to say that SHE WANTS YOU TO MAKE HER SMILE. not comparing. maybe korang dah lama tak romantic2. i think she missed the old time. the moments you were the same as her frens boyfriend. rightt??)

theres many things for a couple to understand
*appreciate the person yang sayang you. you will never get the same old person.
*while she's still there with you, cherish every moment. there might be no more tomorrow
*once you hurt him, put away your ego. please ask for forgiveness as soon as possible. this will make him feel appreciated.
*never compare coz every couple is different. you dont know behind their story. dont simply judge.
*never be rude or sarsactic. always stay sweet so that his mood will not be affected. guys always love understanding girls.
*always put in mind that her happiness is more important that yours. never be selfish. other people deserve some happiness too.
*please give attention to each other. a simple text of " i miss you" would make her day. thats what we call happiness. its always the thought that counts.
*always stay the same. dont ever change. this somehow will make your partner thought that you dont love her anymore.

facts about love
*you both still love each other alot. its just the situation. get through it slowly. dont rush over things.
*everyone wants to be happy all the time. without stress. stop pushing. things will change naturally as she realize how much she need you in her life. give some time.
*try to avoid silly small fights. this somehow will affect the happiness of your relationship.
*spend quality time together. if you guys dont have things to talk, just look at each other and smile. :)
*throw away the EGO. theres no point in that. ego can make you lose someone real precious.


so my conclusion >
appreciate him/her as long she/he is yours..
i ♥♥♥ mohd ruhafiza deeply inside.
no matter how..he's always be mine..
ever lasting...
sayang,,im always make a comparation u n other boyfee..
read all above,,
then u'll noe why im doin all those thingg..
and
no matter what.
just want u to noe..
i luft u,,only u and u..
always n forevar sygg..
plzz..be remind dats..
tq..